Only you know you, and how you respond to temptation and risktaking. So only you can decide what you should do to protect your life and career. I'm not sure I can offer wisdom, but here are some thoughts.
As MikeD1 said, you can find yourself in the same risky spot with most modern cars with a decent motor. The difference it seems to me is that these crazy HCs do it so easily and constantly tempt you to go there. Also, with the power available, even at legal speeds, one can get in plenty of trouble if used carelessly.
But so much of the fun in the HCs is there to enjoy well below jail speeds and without overly risking life and limb. The HCs are a joy to experience getting up to speed, or moving up and down speeds you do every day driving anything. It just happens much faster, and accompanied by the fantastic HC sounds and sensations. There are sane situations to push the limits a bit and those are so fun too, but I pick my moments carefully for the reasons you state. If you really want to test the limits, there is always the track.
I have an after-market heads up display that allows one to set audible alerts for speeds you set. I have hit that number, and then the sane brain tells me to back off. It helps. So for me, I love my HC for what it is and can do without killing me or anyone else. I will have one in my garage as long as I can.