I really do appreciate all your replies. I thought when I asked about which one, I would get Ram as pretty much the only choice since this is a Dodge/Ram type of forum. But I didn't, and other makes were mentioned.
I did test drive a nice new 4x4 Ram crew cab last week....it had the 5.7 Hemi MDS VVT without the e-torque stuff. I can say, if you want a truck that rides nearly as smoothly as a car does, the 5th Gen Rams are what you want. The new coil spring rear suspension makes a big difference. The interiors are well thought out also. But if you want any bells and whistles you're gonna pay for it.
I also test drove a 4x4 F150, 5.0 - I forget which model but it drove fairly smooth and was equipped nicely. I personally think the F150's are the ugliest of the bunch - unless its optioned just right, and then they look nice. And again, when you add all the neat options on the F150's and make them look good, the sticker price goes way up. It drove more like a truck, but not too stiff by any means. It was nice.
Last, I test drove a Tundra 4x4 5.7 with the off road package. I expected it to drive rough with the Bilstein shocks all around, but it didn't. Felt well balanced. It must be the design of the truck, but it feels wider than the others when you're driving and looking down the hood. Feels a little tight in congested traffic. Interior isn't up to Ram or Fords, but still nice. Although the Tundra platform is a bit long in the tooth, it felt well put together. Plus, Toyotas do have a reputation for reliability. I have a '04 Pontiac Vibe I drive all the time. I call it the best Pontiac Toyota ever built!! It's really a Toyota Matrix with different front/rear bumpers and Pontiac emblems. 115K miles, and its had no issues at all. Just normal maintenance...oil changes, brakes and tires. That's it. -And except for a couple of the heat shields underneath being a little rusty after 16 Wisconsin winters and salt, theres really no rust anywhere on it. Certainly held up much better than my poor rusty, crusty S-10. Resale value on all the Toyotas seem higher than the rest also.
-I know everyone is going to have different opinions on all the brands/models....which is good or else we'd all have the same truck!
So......drum roll please.......I ended up getting a decent (not great) deal on a '20 Tundra 4x4 Limited. Has leather, NAV, remote start, power rear sliding window.....bunch of other things. Has the TRD package also with 20" wheels.