After reading your responses, I'd like to make sure that you all understand that I'm not stating for a fact that the 3.09s are the problem. Just that I'm leaning that direction. PLEASE convince me otherwise if you have a different idea.
Also, to be clear what I'm talking about isn't on launch. I'm specifically speaking about when the car is finally moving, the tires are hooked up and the car is accelerating through the gears. The car doesn't have that same "stuff you in your seat" g-force that my 2016 did. I expected at least the same with the additional 90hp, regardless of ratio.
Going back into the memory banks, when I raced dirt Modifieds we had quickchange axles and were constantly fiddling with gear ratios to meet track conditions. It was easy to "overgear" the car to help it get out of corners but if the car wouldn't have that "surge" at the end of the straightaway then we'd lose lap time because corner entry suffered. The key was to get the car out of the corner and still have the car pull hard all the way to the next corner. Not always easy to get right on the first attempt.
Now, I'm not trying to compare an oval track to a street car that primarily goes straight. But what I AM comparing is the level of "pull" the car has once it gets going. Based on my experience I'm thinking it might be overgeared (or too steeply geared, however you like to say it). But that doesn't mean I'm right.
Thanks for everyone's comments so far. I still have a lot to consider.